Friday 14 November 2025
Hello, fellow readers. There are a couple of updates I will talk about, and how I am doing.
But first off, Wtf is happening???
If you're a Neocity user and saw this Terf thing, something is up. I won't name the users or sites, but I do know what everyone is talking about, and I read the thing 7 months ago —was it this year? 2-3 more users had to block themselves and stop blogging on this mishap.
Some people may not like what they read
I have decided to remove them from my links and added new sites to the link section.
It sucks tbh, however, to be clear, I am not that sort of person that dabbles in that stuff. But I do feel bad that this whole thing went way overboard.
My personal site is only focused on gaming— FFXIV, Things I like, and such.
I will say this,
In real life, though I don't have problems with Trans or whatever, if you are religious or not, Idc what color u are because yourself and everyone else is human.
I sell flowers to people from all walks of life, and u know the state I live in is Friendly towards the LGBTQ community.
But if you told me you are trans, gay, lesbian, or otherwise, I don't mind.
What I dislike the most, the very most!! Is Racism because, as an Asian American, I faced it and overcame it. I move forward to do my best to prove I am a better person. I don't like racism. And the word we would agree we don't like is fascism.
For ONline
My parents kept telling me that you shouldn't really engage with people online, lol, such as Twitter, or such, it's not really your problem, or u know, don't engage with strangers online.
It's scary because you don't personally know who they are IRL. We are all pretty much anonymous net users. And we have seen it all the time on swatting and having enormous stress levels just from being terminally online every day. Seeing someone disagree with u and seeing a comment that isn't nice, man, it's a bad feeling when u kinda step on some toes that wasn't really what u meant, but they still attack u.
That's why I don't engage with strangers on a certain topic on the net unless it's my friends at church or someone I know and trust IRL.
But for Blogs or sites with their thoughts, I am not sure tbh.
Anyone can say whatever they want on the NET. They have a personal opinion, and it's only up to you if you so choose to read it or skip it.
Does a site help you with your answers, does it make u feel entertained? If it doesn't, just skip it.
In real life
My parents scold me all the time for shit that I shouldn't have said in IRL to them. Because my Dad tells me, imagine if that was you, "Me," and you know someone had to tell you that to your face? "My face," it's quite embarrassing, and u know you lose face. It's a scary feeling lol.
Even as an adult, I have to choose my words wisely. My parents keep telling me to choose what u say and what u do. Because man, what if your wife ran away from you or you lost a friendship over a joke that may hurt their feeling? U know?
I will stay in Neocity no matter what because the price and plans are pretty good. 50GB bro for 5 dollars a month!!!!= 60dollars a year!!!
So yeah, that's my thoughts though, and I hope you understood my feelings on that matter.
No One is Perfect!!! And it's best not to attack people online, but to see why they wrote it in the first place. If you still don't agree, it's ok, just skip it.
Again, this site is mostly FFXIV, videogames, computers, and things I like.
No matter who you are!!! Please enjoy reading my blog.
But uhhh, is it male performative? "Yeah, that's somewhat my favorite dumb meme word for 2025 lol"
Ok, after all that,
I just wanna say I am so freaking happy that I am still doing well financially, "Meaning I have enough money saved for the winter." I have enough to pay for my car, my internet, plus the Neo City fees and the domain fee.
I will also write about Steam Machines, why GTA4 is somewhat a fun casual game, the history of Steam, and the early years of online storefronts in the early 2000s.
I also freaking love watching this Korean Drama called Spring Waltz lol Episode 13-15 is Peak good.
Lmao, I find Daniel Henney quite relatable because I understand Hmong, like I understood it when I was 8 years old or so, but since English is my First language and Hmong is my second language, plus my mom speaks Hmong to me, and I have to speak both English and Hmong "Hmonglish lol"
I am like 50-60% ok speaking u in Hmong, but let's hope u understand it lol.
Yeah, are you the person who could speak your 2nd language at 50% or 100% and also understand it 100%
I also love playing the original Star Wars Battlefront 2 on the PS2; that's the game I play casually. It gives a sort of Sugar Rush lol.
Levels I chose on Star Wars Battlefront 2 on the PS2,
Death Star as the Rebels
Mustafar as the Empire
Tantive IV as the Empire
About the funeral that I went to around October 24-27, it was very fun, Boring, and interesting.
My aunt "My dad's older sister passed away in August 2025, and we had to go to the funeral.
My travel setup was just my two phones and clothes with a big ass suitcase. After that, the TSA and the airline were smooth as butter. While we got to the Sacramento Airport, we finally got a rental car, and for the first time, we got a Ford Bronco 2025 car. For the first time, we were shocked not to see a keyhole on it lol. We went back and told the lady if they have a car with a keyhole on it. She said no, all of their cars are pretty much new lol.
To turn on the car, you must press the button. To shift into Drive or Reverse, use the dial. It also features two electronic screens on the dashboard and on the radio/AC unit. To make sure you locked the door, you must be far away because it is touch compasstive, meaning you don't need to use the key clicker but just go straight to the door and open it. The key clicker will activate the door to be unlocked since it is in your hand.
The cost of renting a car was around 700 dollars, but I had to take out a 1,000 deposit kinda expensive, but it was worth it.
The car was pretty good.
The hotel was safe and clean as well. I recommend the Hilton Hotel or the Hampton Hotel affiliates. This offers all you can eat Free Breakfast compared to the one from Stockton. The one in Stockton, you have to pay, I think, 5 dollars or so for the Breakfast. The total cost of the hotel for 3 days is $631.63.
The first day, we kinda just chill at the funeral place, and then the 2nd day had to stay there from 8 am-9 Pm. It wasn't a lot of people, but a well-rounded group of people came as well. The place had a lot of food, so I mostly chowed down and talked to people. The last day was the Burial. After that was eating food time, chatting more with the old folks, and receiving wisdom from them. Coming back home was a breeze.
Overall, it was a good trip and I learn a lot from my Dad's old friends.Met a lot of people, including a lady who was a sponsor and assisted my dad's family in finding food and purchasing necessary items. The lady arrived in America after the war in 1975, but my dad arrived in America around 1976, a year later. The lady knows her way around Colorado, so she helps them a lot. I met an old guy who was a commanding officer for General Vang Pao. I also met another old guy who was the one who helped people's papers working with the CIA as a Translator for the Hmong. He helped my dad complete their papers to enter America.
My Dad told me that they had 3 choices lol
France lol Australia or.... fuking American bro
I can't imagine myself having a French accent, speaking French, or having an Aussie Voice lol... Wouldn't that be cool, right?
I found this interesting review of Nekoweb, and this is the second time someone has had a negative view and odd sisuation of Nekoweb. A very interesting take, and thank god i didn't take the grab " You know...Cash-Grab" on Nekoweb lol.
I also realize I'm gonna stop using Discord lol....
The reason is that I kinda said something that I shouldn't say, "Breaking balls lol, and after 4 weeks thinking about it, decided to leave most of the group that I never kinda chatted with lol.
However, I will be on the Blaugust Discord because I freaking love checking out everyone's websites.
OMFG November is going hella fast lol
Thanks for reading, and again, stay safe online!!!!